I received a
copy of the tape from Ruth about three years ago. In the
recording, Ruth begins in a slow, deliberate, and somewhat stilted
voice, which disappears almost immediately, as the conversation with
Sarah becomes a spontaneous, exuberant celebration of two women who
clearly are delighted to be speaking together. They start and
finish each others’ thoughts and sentences, and repeat each others’
words, in sympathetic affirmation. Here and there, Arnold, Ruth’s
husband, makes a comment. Although he is too far from the
microphone to be heard clearly, Ruth’s and Sarah’s responses reveal
what he has said. Their genteel phrases and the distinctive
cadences of their speech are definitively characteristic of the voices
of many of the women in our family, despite the West Coast
accents! To hear them speak makes me feel like I am surrounded by
the gentle relatives I was surrounded with as a child, even though I
never met Sarah and have spoken to Ruth only rarely.
Transcribing this tape was a labor of love, but it took a long
time. Sarah’s and Ruth’s words chase each other and superimpose.
My transcription includes every word I was able to distinguish, as
accurately as possible, although I am certain there are some
mistakes. I’ve tried to convey the back-and-forth of the
discussion; but this is real life—not every question is answered,
discussions go off in tangential directions, and some thoughts are left
unresolved. (I’ve included a few explanatory or corrective words in
brackets; these are my only edits.) Still, a wealth of information is
revealed about Schlaime’s family (one child born in Orla, our home town
in Eastern Europe; two born in Palestine, of whom one was premature and
died; and one born in Pueblo, Colorado); about Schlaime’s travels, and
his kindness and generosity; and about life in Palestine in the early
part of the last century, just to name a few topics. The tape
ends with an astonishing, brief vignette, when Ruth interviews an
elderly woman in
Take some time, and read about a world that’s very different from
ours. I hope we will be able to add audio clips to this website,
so you will be able to hear Ruth’s and Sarah’s voices.